Dear Veronica,

I have been genuinely hating myself. I have noticed that my personality completely changes as I am around different people. Sometimes this change is for the better and other times, it is for the worst. Is this normal? I don’t know how to stop this habit. I am super two faced and I am realizing that it isn’t okay.

Sincerely,

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

This is a totally normal problem, but I am happy that you are able to realize that this isn’t okay. Being two faced and changing can get you into some sticky situations. The reason you are changing is probably because you are insecure about something. If they don’t like your true self, you don’t need them. You shouldn’t have to change around certain people.

You should find out who you actually are. Alternatively, you could figure out what you want to be. Be consistent in who you want to be around everyone and your real friends will still like you and you may even attract new people.

Goodluck,

Veronica